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Quantum:
uhhh.... I dumped the girl I was in first serious relationship with and was dumped by the girl I was in the 2nd serious relationship.

But there's not much of a story to either, both were a bit bad and painful and really for stupid reasons.

texasboy:

--- Quote from: Quantum on October 12, 2008, 11:01:07 am ---uhhh.... I dumped the girl I was in first serious relationship with and was dumped by the girl I was in the 2nd serious relationship.

But there's not much of a story to either, both were a bit bad and painful and really for stupid reasons.

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Good to hear your comment Quantum. Its all part of life and growing up. Very few of our members would have the guts to answer this one and give a detail or two. >:D
cheers

Quantum:

--- Quote from: texasboy on October 13, 2008, 08:46:08 am ---Good to hear your comment Quantum. Its all part of life and growing up. Very few of our members would have the guts to answer this one and give a detail or two. >:D
cheers

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Of course, I don't regret either of the experiences, I'd be even less developed of a person today than I am now without them lol.

The first girl was on that had a crush on me in college, I ended up leaving her because I had some very messed up emotions about things back then and I didn't really know what I was doing. Being a 'nerd' in highschool I'd never really thought about that sort of thing, it was weird to find a girl who liked me at all (it was wider in uni to realize that wasn't a statistical fluke lol).

As for the girl that left me, well it happened earlier this year. Things were a bit complex from the beginning, we met amongst a group of friends with very complex relationships and histories, she left someone to be with me and we were very close very quickly. I'm fairly sure at the end of it we'd both just about fallen in love with each other without admitting it. But like me she was very over-analytical about everything and she didn't want to hurt me too much so when she moved back home to Korea for the summer, she didn't trust herself to be committal for that long given how she'd been this past year, so she just cut off all communication. It was quite sad really, but our time together was really romantic and happy, so I generally just smile about it  :D

billyfridge:
I had a girlfriend taken away from me.
 I was 18, she was 16. We were very much in love. Her parents were rich, mine were poor. She was out of my class. We spent about a year together, then her family moved about 150 miles away. I was devastated. It took me about a year to get over her, I never did get over her completely.
To be dumped is bad enough, but to be wrenched apart is horrible for both of you.

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